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April 25, 2013: Kids Days in Remsen
Sandy, Matt and Mark on the "crowns" Picture taken by Uncle David
(Guest writer for today's blog is my mom, Mary Wagner)
Kids Days, an annual 2-day affair
and the highlight of Remsen, Iowa’s Norman Rockwell summers. June 11
& 12, 1975, not too different from those of days gone by, was blessed with
a little rain, lots of sunshine and steadily rising temperatures (good for the
crops and everyone’s mood) and crammed with events.
Young and old came out in force to
enjoy main street merchant’s sale racks displayed on sidewalks with specials
offered inside each store, Knight’s of Columbus food stand boasting of savory
burgers and onions, a stand with to-die-for Wells Blue Bunny ice cream, the
Kiddie parade, water fight, dances at the Avalon featuring live bands, free
swimming at the pool, maybe a baseball or softball game, Bingo, livestock
judging and last but not least, the carnival rides!!!
After a morning shower of rain,
Wednesday afternoon found Matt, Mark, Sandy & I downtown taking in the
festivities offered for that day, and watching the Kiddie Parade in the evening.
Jim spent his days in his barbershop, and both nights tending bar for the
dances at the Avalon. He didn’t miss a thing during the day
though…the shop with a large front window, & on the north end of main
street was perfectly positioned for viewing the activities going on;
periodically the kids and I stopped by to use the bathroom, hang out and rest a
A quick lunch on Thursday…We walked
the 2 blocks from our house to main street where Grandpa & Grandma Gib (Gib
& Marie Wagner) met us for the water fight. Gib & Marie took over
for the rest of the
afternoon (picture below)
This was also the week that my
brother David (Pick) from Norfolk, VA came home to visit. Taking advantage of this rare opportunity
to entertain his nephews Matt & Mark, and niece, Sandy, David took them to
Kiddie Days on Thursday evening. David chronicled the event with photos
he took while the four of them rode on the Ferris wheel. I wonder if the
kids remember it.
P.S. I sewed the
outfits Matt, Mark & Sandy are wearing.
A picture is worth a thousand words. But let's start with six...
"And they lived happily ever after..."
I bought this little sign more than seven years ago. It caught my eye at Target while shopping for milk and kitty litter on a weekday school night. The boys were in varying grades in school and I was single-handedly running my daily household.
Recently divorced, I was also dating a man from Denver. Garrett. Our relationship felt like forever, but the 550 miles between our homes was a stark reminder that our long-distance relationship was more like a fairytale than reality. We were reminded of this frequently by the people who knew us best.
"Guard your heart. Long distance relationships rarely work out."
"You are both good people, so be realistic in where this is going."
But the funny thing about love is that no matter how practical-minded or mature your mindset, your heart guides you to places that are scary to others, but quite comfortable for you…
I vividly remember being asked as a child to describe what I hoped to have accomplished by age fifty. This thought was inconceivable to my young mind.
"Fifty? That's ancient!" or something close to that was my roadblock to answering this question. So I answered with the stereotypical; married with children and grandchildren, living in a comfy home and....knitting by the fire??
But here I am almost to this milestone. The big one. So what are my thoughts now with my more mature forty-nine-year-old mind?
"I made it!!!!! YES!"
Yep, I'm thrilled. I can truly say that I have never dreaded a birthday or wished to be young again. Every wrinkle is earned and with every new ache, a reminder to enjoy the good health I have today. Reversal is not an option.
A wise person once told me that getting older was much better than the alternative. I have always held this thought close to heart. Every day really is a blessing.
This birthday will be celebrated taking in the bea…
Sorry about the cover picture. It's the best I had from our Top 10 day in Flagstaff. And in all honesty, I had to Google "Snapchat Filters" to figure out how to create this picture. Then...wahlah... I am a deer or a dog??
Garrett and I are in Flagstaff, checking it out. I am feeling like a senior in high school, touring schools and narrowing down final decisions. We are going through the same decision process. Kind of. No school, though. Basically trying to figure out commonality in where to live post-kids.
What we have found is this is an easier decision for Garrett. He has a master spreadsheet that lists comparison of cities in the US listed by major categories of importance to us...days of sunshine, inches of snow, recreation, cost of living, median home cost, etc...
Easy, peasy for Garrett. We can narrow down by a spreadsheet.
Sandy...not so much.
Our breakfast conversation was a nice point of clarity as we visited our city #2, Flagstaff, on the spreadsheet.