This blog is a collection of stories on the ordinary days of today and a documentary of the days of the past. Thank-you for reading and allowing me to share. Enjoy your ordinary days and hopefully the bits and pieces of mine will resonate with the moments in your lives that bring you happiness.
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July 24, 2013: Kingman Pool with Grandma
Wagner grandkids at the Kingman pool
Guest blogger is my mom. Love her descriptive portrayal of life history...
July 21, 2008: Kylynn, Josh, Brooke, Ben, Grant &
Garrett visit Kingman's old downtown pool. I drove them to & from the
pool in installments....our car seats 5 and it was interesting...Even though it
is only a 3 mile trip to the pool, I was worried sick something would happen
to the kids at the pool or at our house while I transported. Garrett, the
youngest, was 8; & Kylynn, the oldest, was a few weeks shy of 14.
Kylynn went with me on the 1st trip (so she could watch the little ones at
the pool while I went back for the 2nd batch); Josh watched those left behind
at the house. Later, on the trip back to the house, I followed the
same procedure but in reverse. For what little time Grant & Garrett
spent in the water, it was in the shallow end and they pretty much hugged the
side of the pool. Safety first for those two little guys. Not so
for the older ones. As a matter of fact, I do believe I heard more than
one whistle warning from the lifeguard. As you see in the pictures,
interest in the pool had waned for Kingman kids; the pool was pretty empty. On
each trip back to the house we stopped at the downtown convenience store,
Circle K, for snacks. Wow, were they hungry!
In Dr. Seuss' language, my thoughts on the day would go something like this...
"You have a brain in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose. Unless someone truly cares an awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It's not."
Well, I will just sum it up by saying that today certainly wasn't an ordinary day, but I will accept that. Life is full of changes, good and bad.
Sometimes the toughest part is figuring out if life shake-ups are truly a good or a bad thing. Personally, I have found my biggest life challenges have turned into opportunities. Doors opened to new people and adventures. A new chapter in life.
I am bullish in my view that this will be the case once again.
When the unexpected creeps into the door of normalcy, the best response is not one of self-doubt, anger, or fear. The best response is gaining perspective and self-awareness.
Time flies when you're having fun.
And when you're a little busy.
This morning Garrett asked me when I last wrote a blog.
"It's been a while" was my answer. Upon further review, it's almost been over a month.
I've had no reason for the delay, other than the combination of being busy and knowing the content of which I wanted to write warranted more time and thought than my more typical whimsical stories told. Although I have had an arsenal of stories that I have wanted to write about over the last month, I knew that this one needed to top my list.
A common question asked of me is in regards to my work life is "Sandy, what exactly are you doing these days?"
This is a valid question since I have been very open in sharing my work journey over the years through my blog. And I've had a career that has gone from very conventional to unconventional. It's much easier to say "I work for XYZ Company and my job title is Chief Do-Something-Spec…
A picture is worth a thousand words. But let's start with six...
"And they lived happily ever after..."
I bought this little sign more than seven years ago. It caught my eye at Target while shopping for milk and kitty litter on a weekday school night. The boys were in varying grades in school and I was single-handedly running my daily household.
Recently divorced, I was also dating a man from Denver. Garrett. Our relationship felt like forever, but the 550 miles between our homes was a stark reminder that our long-distance relationship was more like a fairytale than reality. We were reminded of this frequently by the people who knew us best.
"Guard your heart. Long distance relationships rarely work out."
"You are both good people, so be realistic in where this is going."
But the funny thing about love is that no matter how practical-minded or mature your mindset, your heart guides you to places that are scary to others, but quite comfortable for you…